Why I Endorse Alex Sysoef

Posted on August 10, 2010 by admin

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Who is Alex Sysoef?

Why do I recommend Expert WordPress Blogging System?

I think most of my readers know who Alex Sysoef is. If you are new to my blog and you do not know him, then I hope you will follow my links to his site and get his help for your affiliate marketing success. I have written about him before and will probably write about him again.

I met Alex years ago, when he was working a full time job and so was I. Alex knows how to program, and the ins and outs of affiliate marketing. We met on a forum, or on one of Luke Parker’s web projects where I was a beta testing and a forum moderator.

I was always impressed by Alex’s desire to help people succeed online, and with his desire to stop working around the clock. It seemed we were all doing that then. That sort of schedule resulted in me getting really ill, and realizing I can only take so many hours without getting little sleep. It resulted in Alex using his talents to develop what I feel is one of the best, if not the best, groups of bloggers around. Many are bloggers in training, but many have also become quite accomplished with affiliate marketing.

I like to attend his webinars when time permits. Usually they are when I am at work, but he adds the recordings to his membership site. I really would rather be there live than listen to a recording. How about you?

This is very typical of what you get with Alex Sysoef. He scheduled the webinar for an hour, but he went into details about teaching people how to get their first blog up and running and then how to go out and start getting some free traffic to their blog. I participated in one of Alex’s tests when he was going to be adding to his Expert WordPress Blogging System, and I know how his techniques can get your blogs to some high search engine rankings.

I am not going to teach what he teaches in this post, but I recommend that you go check out his site for yourself.

I have been really lucky to interview Alex when I was conducting interviews at Mastermind Pros. It is hard to believe that was about 2 years ago. What has changed since then? Word Press has changed a lot and is even better. Alex has improved Expert Word Press a whole lot, too, and keeps the installations compatible with the current WP updates. That can be really difficult to do when you use a lot of the plug ins.

Are you having technical trouble with your blog? Alex has a forum for Expert WordPress users where you can get your questions answered. Alex and I were chatting via email the other day about different success programs out there, and Alex was talking about people who over deliver on their products. Alex Sysoef is definitely one of those people who does the same.

Free is good, affordable is good, too, when the product can save you time and money that you would spend to learn everything he can teach you about your blogging success.

I read somewhere that most bloggers are writers and not marketers. Sooner or later bloggers are going to want to make some extra money to support all that blogging. Once you are ready to take the step into the world of affiliate marketing you will want to join the Expert Word Press team. It is not join and get rich over night, but it is join and find out what you can do to improve your chances of successful marketing with your blogs.

Whether you want to blog for fun, or blog for profit, there is something for everyone at EWP (Expert WordPress). Alex has a series of videos that walks you through your first installation when you get your hosting. You should have your own hosting, because that way you will not mess up some terms of service by whoever is providing the blogs.

Hostgator Web Hosting can get you up and running and if very affordable with enough room to keep you blogging for a long time. Alex has his blogs set up to work fine with Hostgator, too. I have used his fast installation, and it is the best thing going, because you get everything you need and his EWP site does all the ground work.

Well I hope this has given you the desire to go meet Alex Sysoef and find out why I endorse him and Expert WordPress. There is a wealth of information for members and you can always get a refresher course when you need it, or get the latest in what is new at Word Press, and how to use it.

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Internet Coaches~2

Posted on June 10, 2009 by admin

Internet Coaches vs Life Coaches

Questions to Consider

How do you stay on track and positive?
Do you find more positive than negative thoughts surrounding your day?
How many hours do you spend listening to news or televison that leaves negative messages?
Is the music you listen to uplifting, or does it have negative connotations?
Do you hold negative thoughts captive?

Perhaps these questions do not seem remotely connected to internet coaching. Maybe they seem like something that can tie into another positive coaching session or maybe even a visit to a counselor or a psychiatrist. However these are questions you should be asking yourself to determine where you are in your present situation, and to help chart your path to a new destination.

Do all successful people start out that way? I do not know if they all do, but my guess would be that few successful people get there on their first try. Many of the people who are considered successful by the world’s standards face several obsticles in their lives.

The main difference is that they never gave up no matter what. I could go into another series on people who lost it all and hit bottom to end up some of the best known people in history. Napoleon Hill’s book, Think and Grow Rich (still worth reading in my opinion, and I might offer that as a download later on this series), looks at several of the successful people in business, and what they did to get there.

That is the first place I heard of mastermind groups. That was when I was either in high school or fresh out of high school. This whole concept was so far above me. However I knew I needed to find a mastermind group. Whether or not I knew what I was doing, I did find people I needed to succeed, but at that time my goal was not having an internet coach. My goal was to get one trophy, just one, for surfing. I never had a trophy for anything in my life, so that seemed like something I would like to do.

I was pretty terrible at surfing then, too. Before I go on a total different course with this posting, I should focus on how one idea can change a life. I read a book that was totally different than anything I was taught in high school. I never saw that book on a “reading list” in college either, and I was a Business Major.

However, reading Think and Grow Rich was probably the best time I ever spent as far as return on time investment. It taught me that you never give up. You focus on what your goals are. It is ok to have different goals or to change your path, but if you apply the principles in the book, you will find that you can attract the people who can help you to reach your goals.

The things we think about today pave what we get in the future. Write down what you want to achieve. I have sayings and goals on my walls in my office. They are tacked on there. That is one of the benefits of having your own office. One of the things I put up there is this, ” I am attracting successful people!”

I even pray, “Thank you God, for the people you are bringing into my life who can influence me in a positive way and help me to reach my goals.” This helps. I meet people who I never would have imagined I would meet and I learn from them.

Not all coaches have to be someone you pay to learn from. Be open to the types of people you are attracting. You will find that as you change, the types of people that you attract will also start changing.

If you want to succeed on the internet, then you want to eventually have some internet coaches. However, if your internet success is slow (and for most people it is), and you feel that you are not in the place that you want to be, it is time to think about how you got there.

Perhaps your coaching needs to start out by changing how you think. Changing our mindset and our bad self talk and thinking about our self can ruin anything that we learn from our internet coach. So take a look at the questions at the start of this posting and see if there is something that needs to be changed.

Start thinking more positively today.

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My Series On Internet Coaches~1

Posted on June 7, 2009 by admin

You might think this post is intended for internet newbies only. However it is intended for anyone conducting business on the internet. I wonder how many people use some form of internet coaching. I have used internet coaches during my stay on the internet and they have provided valuable information to me, and help along the way. I have made mistakes in choosing a coach, but I feel a the time I made the best decisions possible.

For this reason I am going to be spending time in this month, June, to write about internet coaches. The good and the bad of internet coaches will be discussed along with an opportunity for the readers to comment with their honest opinions. I know several people who have used coaches.

I have gone from student to internet coach. I can add my own perspective as a coach to what I write. This might be eye opening for some of you, and it might be ho hum business as usual for others.

First of all the main thing you want to do is make sure that the coach you are going to use does have a presence of some sort on the internet. Maybe they are not one of the gurus who you get emails from offering to sell you something every day. Those are not the best coaches out there. Those are salesmen and salesladies offering you an unending list of e-books and DVDs or CDs or online videos that show some technique.

When you are looking for a coach you want someone who will interact with you live. Live interaction either by telephone, or a conference room, or an online messenger service. Email interaction is great, too. There are several services out there that offer great support through email, and internet coaches do that, too.

Most coaching groups do not have an on site live chat person available 24/7. That is just too much to hope for. Remember they do not dedicate their entire day to helping individual clients for the most part. Most coaches work their own businesses too, or are part time coaches and work another job along with it.

Finally to close off this segment, I want to add, that no matter what level you are at in your online business, you should have some sort of Mastermind group as recommended in the book, Think and Grow Rich by Napoleon Hill. If you are just starting out and do not have your mastermind group yet, then I hope this series will give you some insight into getting started and getting the help you need via internet coaches so that you can find your mastermind groups.

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April Showers Arrive

Posted on April 4, 2009 by admin

Can you believe that for the Northern Hemisphere it is already Springtime? Of course for my friends in the Southern Hemisphere you are getting ready for the approaching Winter season in a few months. Hopefully the change in seasons will bring forth hope for a better future.

Whether it is a new year, a new day, it is always a good time for a new beginning. When you are an internet marketer, you know that every day can bring some sort of change to your marketing plan. It seems with every year that there is a huge leap forward in technology. We rely on each other to keep up on these changes, or at least I do, because if I did not do this I would find myself watching opportunity pass me by.

Do you want to keep up with technology changes? If you are over 30, you better find some younger friends. I work with teenagers and they always seem to have the latest gadget or know about it. I do not buy anything electronic without getting the input of the teens. You have to be aware of what they are using, and what they have tested.

If you are looking for a cell phone, find out what the teens recommend. Why is that? How many times do they drop them? They are on them all day using every feature. They text constantly, take and send pictures, immediately posting to their MySpace pages, sharing MP3 songs.

Teens are amazing! I see more and more teen entrepreneurs, too. They have not bought into the No, you can not do that, mentality. Please do not discourage anyone by saying, “no, you can not do that” to them.

Well once again a post starts here and goes all over the place. What I am saying and where I am going with this is that we all need to be open to changes since they occur faster than we usually expect.
How do we do that?

Spend Time Reading Daily!

Find A Social Site or Sites That Share Information You Need–>Join It! Participate!

Join Google Friend Connect, or another service that allows you to follow blogs you like

Keep Posting To Your Blog.

Keep Reading My Blog

There are some great affordable business opportunities right now, and I believe that there is money to be made in 2009! There is one coaching group that I am partial to since I coach for them, but their joint venture projects can not be beat!

Stay tuned for more updates.

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My Mastermind Pros Affiliation

Posted on February 9, 2008 by admin

I can not believe that I have not written about Mastermind Pros on this blog. Perhaps it is because I author the blog for Mastermind Pros. I was fortunate enough to join them when I was learning about Google Adwords advertising.

It was when all the hype was around about Google Cash Detective that I met Frank Terranova on a forum, and then I attended his conferences. I was impressed with how open and honest he seemed, and how approachable. Google Cash Detective has had its ups and downs and is still being improved. Frank Terranova formed a success coaching team called Mastermind Pros and the rest is history. Well I am going to keep you updated on some of the history.

Ann Moss and Andrew Youtz are incredible marketers and are two of the top people who form a solid trio with Frank Terranova. I help out where I can and we also have Alisha who is becoming the expert on Google Cash Detective and Google Cash Automator.

I teach blogging classes about once a week. It goes from basics on blogging to more advanced techniques. Blogging is one of my favorite mediums for online communication and now for affiliate landing pages and capture pages. I have some Blogs with blog tutorials that I keep adding to.

Frank Terranova has a heart of gold! The coaches I have met at Mastermind Pros really do care about your success. The information shared there is extraordinary. I have paid a whole lot more and have been shown a whole lot less in mentoring programs. Most of the mentoring programs I have been involved with tell you that you will be making the money back in 30 days so that your all cash up front expenses are paid for. This has not happened for me in 2 programs I got involved with. They fell way short of their promises.

Mastermind Pros will not tell you that you can make 6 figure incomes in a year. They will teach you how to reach that figure of an income though, and what steps you need to take. They give you the confidence and the training to get started. Plus they do not take all your money to do it.

Give Mastermind Pros a try and when you are in the blogging class tell me that I sent you. )

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Who Is Steve Pavlina?

Posted on December 31, 2007 by admin

Have you heard of Steve Pavlina? Well I do not want to tell you too much about him or I may never see you again. (*sad face goes here*)…

Seriously though a person who went to jail at age 19 and now teaches lessons in wealth and prosperity, vegan living, and positive thinking is someone you might want to read about. I am sure most of us can learn at least one thing by visiting his website. Either that or you can read here where I will share some of the things I learn from his website or comment on how things he has learned compliment what I am also teaching.

Sometimes it is fun to hear things from more than one person, and as far as positive things you can not hear those often enough. My goal is to have a blog that is as awesome at Steves. Well, there are other people who have blogs just as fun and awesome, and this is going to be one of them, too. He just got a better head start then I am having.

You know sometimes a jail term does change lives for the better. I am not sure how often that works, but I can think of 3 people right off hand. Paul in the Bible who wrote several of the Books in the New Testament in the Bible used his prison time to write, and where would we be without those Books? (ok…broke the rule about religion…but they are great books to read if you have not read them yet, I suggest it!). Chuck Colson began his prison fellowship that has helped thousands of families after being released from prison. How many of you are old enough to remember Watergate? Well, now we have Steve Pavlina. Like Paul and Chuck, Steve is helping a lot of people and changing a lot of lives. I wonder where Paul would have been if there was internet access and pod casting when he was in prison. Imagine the email campaigns he could have conducted!

Well, it is fun to let your imagination go crazy, but it is time to get ready to get the car in for its maintenance checkup.

If you are looking to find some faster online coaching…and I am not only using the coaching, I am also a coach…I hope you will give Mastermind Pros a look. I have learned more in one class on Ebay selling then I learned in a course I paid way too much for.

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Discover Coaching in 2008!

Posted on December 30, 2007 by admin

I am a full on believer in all that is good and positive. Unfortunately even with that, live still happens. Rob Phelps from Automatic Builder and Horizons Marketing says he won’t allow himself the luxury of a negative thought. That is not all that easy to do, but another famous pastor, Charles Stanley, also speaks about negative thoughts.

What Charles Stanley says is that you can not prevent the thoughts from entering your mind, but you can prevent them from taking over. So how do we become stronger in the positive and weaker in the negative?

I read more and more on the positive people in life and am trying to copy them. I have turned off the television and most radio. Sometimes you have to drop out from the norm to change your life! I really do not miss television that much, and when I do see some of it I am amazed at the deterioriation in quality.

How do I fill my time? I joined Mastermind Pros Coaching and am one of their coaches. I study the subjects that I coach in and attend as many trainings as possible. It is far more rewarding then television (ok I still enjoy the food network, too, and a DVD movie once in a while…even old television).

I like to write and am doing more and more writing.

I am an Intenational Director for Nutronix International, and The Berry Tree. I spend a lot of my time helping with trainings there, too. 2008 is going to be an incredible year for my downline. You will be reading about it all here. If you want to become a part of my team I suggest you visit my Automatic Builder site, acutally that is my cousin’s link. He is a diasbled Army Vet and I am determined to get his business going with his help, and to help anyone who joins below him.

Once my cousin has his one member then I am going to be helping others on his team, too.

Well I did not mean to go on so long. Make 2008 your year to find out what is out there besides television! I hope you will attend some of our coaching, or join our Success Team at Nutronix.

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